It helps a person express themselves in a more natural and genuine way, thus instilling within themselves a deeper sense of personal power and confidence. It helps one become more aware of the many false pretenses that they operate under and the insincere ways they express themselves to others. This allows them to be more of the person they really are, instead of the person they think others want them to be. Mariola imparts a certain excitement or enthusiasm that comes from wholly being oneself, without apology, shame, hesitation, or fear.

This flower essence helps one become more grounded in their body and mind. It helps instill in one’s being a deep a sense of worthiness, inner strength, and self-esteem. The more grounded one feels, the more relaxed one feels. This feeling gives way to an inner happiness or joy that can only come from finally discovering your inner value and self-worth. This essence is highly recommended to people who are convinced that they are not good enough, suffer from low self-esteem, lack confidence, feel bad about themselves, feel unlovable, awkward, incompetent, or simply suffer from a poor self image.

This essence works wonders for people who feel insecure due to the fact that they believe that something is innately missing in their lives, something that they need to feel whole and complete. They think, “If only I had that missing thing, I’d feel wholly secure inside myself.” Mexican Star helps you realize that everything you need in life is already contained inside you. It helps nurture one’s inner strength, which brings about a deep sense of confidence and security. The more one relies on their own inner power, the more expanded their sense of self becomes and the deeper connection they feel to all that is.

The keynote to this flower essence is self-acceptance. Thus, it works wonders for people who suffer from a negative self-image and/or overly indulge in victim mentalities. It fosters the release of negative patterns of thought and behavior which are no longer relevant to the person they are now becoming, or to the higher principles that they feel compelled to follow. Thus, one feels a deepened sense of security within themselves, which arises from the awareness that they are perfect as they are at each level of their personal development. They realize that their validity as a person comes from within, and therefore has nothing to do with others approval or disapproval of them. Inmortal goes to the core of shame and self-esteem issues. It is excellent for resolving feelings of despair, feeling that problems are insoluble, feeling inadequate, feeling dispirited, disheartened, unhappy, overwhelmed by victim consciousness, feeling weighted down due to an unsolvable problem or issue; feeling stuck, burdened, or overwhelmed.

This flower essence helps a person better deal with their lack of maturity or their inability to successfully integrate various aspects of themselves. The person who uses this flower essence will feel more connected with themselves mentally, emotionally, and physically, just as if they grew up or raised their level. Thus, they naturally feel more supported by the universe, and more alive and connected to life itself — a very exhilarating feeling. This flower also assists those who find it difficult to bring their thoughts or ideas into fruition, or concrete reality. It helps a person feel supported enough to turn their dreams into reality.

This essence helps us to resolutely confront people or situations that we tend to want to avoid. This avoidance is due in part to certain insecurities that we still harbor within ourselves. Bouvardia helps us find the needed inner strength and confidence to deal with such challenging situations. It does that by providing a vantage point from where we can calmly, boldly, and clearly state our views without all of the usual emotional entanglement and drama. This essence helps one confront reality with the distinct feeling that, “I can definitely handle anything thrown at me by life.” This is what true confidence looks like, and this essence can help impart that to you. In a nutshell: Bouvardia fortifies our will to confront life directly and consciously, changing emotional reactivity and avoidance patterns into positive response and action.

Helps a person overcome the feelings of inferiority, or the feeling that they’re not good enough to take part of the social relationships around them. Helps one overcome the feeling of being disconnected from others, thus enabling them to better communicate with others from a deeper level, and from the heart. It will help you feel more connected to everyone around you, so any feelings of inner loneliness will give way to a more open sense of yourself and others.

This flower essence is particularly helpful to those who may feel a sense of aloneness (but not necessarily “loneliness”) deep in their being. This aloneness may be unknowingly connected to a past event, which caused them to isolate themselves from the outside world. Creosote helps such a person release what he’s held inside for so long, thus enabling him to better connect with others. The person will feel, as if his entire being had been fundamentally renewed.

This essence helps a person transcend the feeling of separateness and exclusivity by making them more aware of the common thread of humanity that flows through each of us. Thus, it helps one better see the similarities between themselves and others, instead of the glaring differences.

his essence helps a person stay fully centered within themselves, confident that they know their essential nature or identity. It helps one take responsibility for their actions and expressing who they really are. It helps foster one’s innocence, charisma, and a higher sense of morality, which inspires and nurtures others. It gives one the needed courage and ability to communicate in an open and comfortable manner. It allows one to lightly and joyfully bring certain undesirable personal traits into consciousness, instead of burying them or getting overly annoyed and angry with ourselves.

This flower essence is particularly useful for those who are overly influenced by the ideals that others have set for them, which might not necessarily meld with one’s own unique soul purpose. When we overly rely on others to help guide our life–rather than looking within and trusting our own self–we will undoubtedly experience self-doubt and confusion. This essence helps one become more dependent on their inner guidance, rather than what other people think they should do.

This essence helps us identify deeply held assumptions or beliefs that we hold about ourselves, relationships, and life in general. It also shows us how these assumptions or beliefs limit us or hold us back from making changes in our lives. Tarbush helps us become aware of the thoughts and behavioral patterns that keep us stuck–always attracting to ourselves the same difficult lessons.

Maintaining any human relationship involves some form of risk, especially when we need to say something to others that we feel they won’t want to hear. We may even fear that the other party will no longer like, love, or respect us if we voice our thoughts. Thus, we often remain trapped in our silence, afraid to take this risk. Fishhook Cactus can “lend” us the strength and fortitude we need to take that risk, knowing that there is surely something positive that will come from it, both for us and the other party.

People who need this essence tend to be loners whose social insecurity causes them to avoid community, because they’re genuinely uncomfortable with others. In addition, a keynote here with this essence is self-consciousness, and the resulting feeling that one needs to struggle very hard to perfectly meet some known or unknown expectation that others may have of us and/or our work. As a result, people like this often experience little to no joy in their work. Purple Aster can help dissolve this intense need to push ourselves overly hard so that people around us will approve of us. What replaces it is the feeling that we are in harmony with the universe’s will and as such there is no longer any need to feel the pressure to perform for others. Our self-consciousness gives way to a feeling of finally being able to relax and enjoy our lives by just going with life’s flow.

This flower essence helps one to hold fast to their core values and self-identity. It helps us to unequivocally and politely stand our ground by maintaining our boundaries. Do you feel stuck? Do you feel like a victim of circumstance? Do you feel frustrated or fearful? Horseradish can help you power through all of this by building you up, firing you up, and moving you out of our current rut by dislodging fear, low self-esteem and blame-shifting. It can bring fresh energy and a new perspective to an old or tired situation, in order to get our lives moving again. Like clearing out the clutter from our garage, leaving a dead-end job, or getting out of a bad relationship. Stuck belief patterns can be removed with the help of horseradish.

This essence works wonders for people who don’t feel confident enough to make their own decisions.

This essence is particularly helpful to those who do not consider themselves as good or capable as those around them, who expect failure,and who feel that they will never be a success. Thus, they refrain from venturing out or making a strong enough attempt to succeed.